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  •  9  1  3 hours ago
  • 13 años de mi pollita bella!!! 😍🐥
Deseo que tengas un cumpleaños maravilloso, que sigas disfrutando, divirtiéndote, aprendiendo de todo y todos, pero sobre todo, que seas aún más feliz! Porque ese es el motor de tus papás y la gran alegria de todos quienes te amamos.
Gracias por ser una gran maestra en mi vida, de ti y contigo he aprendido cosas que nunca esperé y que  agradezco con todo mi ❤️
Te adoro! 💕.
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#felizcumpleaños #felices13 #cumpleañosfeliz #hijastra #stepmom #stepdaughter #pollitamia #madrastraehijastra
  • 13 años de mi pollita bella!!! 😍🐥
    Deseo que tengas un cumpleaños maravilloso, que sigas disfrutando, divirtiéndote, aprendiendo de todo y todos, pero sobre todo, que seas aún más feliz! Porque ese es el motor de tus papás y la gran alegria de todos quienes te amamos.
    Gracias por ser una gran maestra en mi vida, de ti y contigo he aprendido cosas que nunca esperé y que agradezco con todo mi ❤️
    Te adoro! 💕.
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    #felizcumpleaños #felices13 #cumpleañosfeliz #hijastra #stepmom #stepdaughter #pollitamia #madrastraehijastra
  •  12  1  3 hours ago

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  • If you’ve noticed lately my insta name keeps changing, but I think I’ve finally found one that fits. Being a mom to 7 has me searching for identity and purpose. Join me as I share my journey - the good, the bad, the in between. I hope to encourage others to live simply (anyone else always try to over complicate things?), look for joy wherever I can, and and above all keep it real, because life is a little to crazy to only be pretty. #mom #momlife #twinmom #stepmom #mompreneur #keepingitreal #reallife #simply #joyful #real #wife #jesusseeker
  • If you’ve noticed lately my insta name keeps changing, but I think I’ve finally found one that fits. Being a mom to 7 has me searching for identity and purpose. Join me as I share my journey - the good, the bad, the in between. I hope to encourage others to live simply (anyone else always try to over complicate things?), look for joy wherever I can, and and above all keep it real, because life is a little to crazy to only be pretty. #mom #momlife #twinmom #stepmom #mompreneur #keepingitreal #reallife #simply #joyful #real #wife #jesusseeker
  •  4  0  4 hours ago
  • ✨ Are you doing it for yourself; or to please someone else?
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Because Mama, if you're doing it for someone else; your motivation is all wrong.
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❤ One thing I've come to realize is that if I'm doing it to please someone else, my heart just isn't in it.
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But if I'm doing it for me, because it aligns with who I am and what I want; and it makes my heart soar; "results" come way more easily. And I have way more fun.
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#createyoursweetspot #thrivewhereyouare
  • ✨ Are you doing it for yourself; or to please someone else?
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    Because Mama, if you're doing it for someone else; your motivation is all wrong.
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    ❤ One thing I've come to realize is that if I'm doing it to please someone else, my heart just isn't in it.
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    But if I'm doing it for me, because it aligns with who I am and what I want; and it makes my heart soar; "results" come way more easily. And I have way more fun.
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    #createyoursweetspot #thrivewhereyouare
  •  13  1  4 hours ago

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  • Louder for the people in the back. 👏🏼
  • Louder for the people in the back. 👏🏼
  •  34  1  4 hours ago
  • Life is about balance. Appreciate the ebb and flow of the moments. •
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  • Life is about balance. Appreciate the ebb and flow of the moments. •

    Repost: @decade2doodles
  •  14  1  4 hours ago

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  • Peace out Kinder we got some first graders on our hands.👩🏼‍🎓🎓📓🖍✏️ I cant express how proud I am of the two of you. The beginning of the year 1 to 10 was a struggle now we can count 1 to 100 like a boss. We are one step closer to reading books all on our own that’s just some of the major accomplishments you have achieved this year and as your mama I am SO proud of you and all your hard work. I love you both with my whole heart.✨❤️ #Graduation. #Kindergardengrad. #Kindergarden. #Motherhood. #Stepmama. #Love. #Flowers. #Stepmom. #Firstgrade. #Twins. #Congratulations.
  • Peace out Kinder we got some first graders on our hands.👩🏼‍🎓🎓📓🖍✏️ I cant express how proud I am of the two of you. The beginning of the year 1 to 10 was a struggle now we can count 1 to 100 like a boss. We are one step closer to reading books all on our own that’s just some of the major accomplishments you have achieved this year and as your mama I am SO proud of you and all your hard work. I love you both with my whole heart.✨❤️ #Graduation. #Kindergardengrad. #Kindergarden. #Motherhood. #Stepmama. #Love. #Flowers. #Stepmom. #Firstgrade. #Twins. #Congratulations.
  •  42  2  4 hours ago
  • I sooo overslept this morning. As in I don’t remember my alarm or my husband’s 4 alarms going off this morning.

Cory didn’t wake me up (probably because he knew I needed rest) and the boys actually left me alone this morning (maybe they knew too?). So I took it as a sign from God that I needed to slow down and rest.

I had a slow morning that consisted of lots of snuggles and hot coffee.

The boys and I went on a short walk up the road to see the neighbor’s cows, and then headed to the Y so that they could play while I knocked out some work.

As much as I didn’t want to work, I made myself because when you’re your own boss you just have put on your big girl panties and handle it.

But look at some of the things from my peeps inside of my virtual gym/fit community that have been shared this week:
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“I hit the 10 lb mark today! I didn’t think I was gonna ever make it 😆 thanks for your encouragement“
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“I’ve lost 15 pounds.”
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“So this morning I decided to try on my size 14 shorts 😭😭😭 and they FIT. I haven’t worn these since [my son]. So since the summer of 2015 😬 wow!“
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One of my favorites is this though (from the person above who lost 15lbs):
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“This weekend will be a challenge, we are going camping with the whole family. Lots of snack foods and 3 days of no scales 🤷‍♀️ but I’m not going to stress over it...I’m going to enjoy the time with family and make smart food decisions.”
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Look at her mindset!!! When we first started to chat and talk about her linking arms, her outlook was not this AT ALL.

That part of her message that she sent me made my heart swell so BIG.

This nutrition course is LIFE CHANGING.

These are real people, getting real results, all while ENJOYING life and not restricting themselves.

If that’s not freedom then I don’t know what is!

My inbox is always open 🙂. #WhyNotYOU
  • I sooo overslept this morning. As in I don’t remember my alarm or my husband’s 4 alarms going off this morning.

    Cory didn’t wake me up (probably because he knew I needed rest) and the boys actually left me alone this morning (maybe they knew too?). So I took it as a sign from God that I needed to slow down and rest.

    I had a slow morning that consisted of lots of snuggles and hot coffee.

    The boys and I went on a short walk up the road to see the neighbor’s cows, and then headed to the Y so that they could play while I knocked out some work.

    As much as I didn’t want to work, I made myself because when you’re your own boss you just have put on your big girl panties and handle it.

    But look at some of the things from my peeps inside of my virtual gym/fit community that have been shared this week:
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    “I hit the 10 lb mark today! I didn’t think I was gonna ever make it 😆 thanks for your encouragement“
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    “I’ve lost 15 pounds.”
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    “So this morning I decided to try on my size 14 shorts 😭😭😭 and they FIT. I haven’t worn these since [my son]. So since the summer of 2015 😬 wow!“
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    One of my favorites is this though (from the person above who lost 15lbs):
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    “This weekend will be a challenge, we are going camping with the whole family. Lots of snack foods and 3 days of no scales 🤷‍♀️ but I’m not going to stress over it...I’m going to enjoy the time with family and make smart food decisions.”
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    Look at her mindset!!! When we first started to chat and talk about her linking arms, her outlook was not this AT ALL.

    That part of her message that she sent me made my heart swell so BIG.

    This nutrition course is LIFE CHANGING.

    These are real people, getting real results, all while ENJOYING life and not restricting themselves.

    If that’s not freedom then I don’t know what is!

    My inbox is always open 🙂. #WhyNotYOU
  •  7  1  4 hours ago
  • Colt & I spent some quality time last night and this morning before daddy arrived at the water park. Needless to say it was memorable. Savoring all the one on one time I can get with this kiddo✨
  • Colt & I spent some quality time last night and this morning before daddy arrived at the water park. Needless to say it was memorable. Savoring all the one on one time I can get with this kiddo✨
  •  22  1  4 hours ago
  • Oh summer, you meant something totally different to me a decade ago. 😂 #TagImIt
  • Oh summer, you meant something totally different to me a decade ago. 😂 #TagImIt
  •  17  1  5 hours ago
  • Meet @kclanderson, my guest for the latest episode of Maybe Someday. (Link in profile!) Karen reached out to me with this message: “The short-ish version is this: I don't remember a time that I ever wanted to have children. I assumed I'd have them. I'd go to college, meet a guy, get married, and have children.” She met and married a man with three kids from a previous relationship, and said she felt relieved when she learned that he didn’t want more.

Over the years, Karen has explored the hows and whys of who she is and why she didn't want to have children. Part of that exploration led her to healing her relationship with her "difficult" mother (and writing a book about it, for other women who have difficult relationships with their mothers). And it led her to explore and to write about the truth of her relationship with her husband's ex-wife (and the mother of his children) who died nearly five years ago (her essay was published in @oprahmagazine in January). In our wide-ranging conversation Karen talked to me about step-parenting, choosing not to have children “of her own”, healing a difficult relationship with her own mother and the mother of her step-children.
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#maybesomeday #podcast #nokids #childfreebychoice #childfree #motherhood #feministpod #nokidsforme #mybodymychoice #stepmother #stepmom #stepmomlife #bonusmom #bonusmomlife #stepmothering #oprahmagazine #difficultmothers #difficultmotherdaughterrelationships
  • Meet @kclanderson, my guest for the latest episode of Maybe Someday. (Link in profile!) Karen reached out to me with this message: “The short-ish version is this: I don't remember a time that I ever wanted to have children. I assumed I'd have them. I'd go to college, meet a guy, get married, and have children.” She met and married a man with three kids from a previous relationship, and said she felt relieved when she learned that he didn’t want more.

    Over the years, Karen has explored the hows and whys of who she is and why she didn't want to have children. Part of that exploration led her to healing her relationship with her "difficult" mother (and writing a book about it, for other women who have difficult relationships with their mothers). And it led her to explore and to write about the truth of her relationship with her husband's ex-wife (and the mother of his children) who died nearly five years ago (her essay was published in @oprahmagazine in January). In our wide-ranging conversation Karen talked to me about step-parenting, choosing not to have children “of her own”, healing a difficult relationship with her own mother and the mother of her step-children.
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    #maybesomeday #podcast #nokids #childfreebychoice #childfree #motherhood #feministpod #nokidsforme #mybodymychoice #stepmother #stepmom #stepmomlife #bonusmom #bonusmomlife #stepmothering #oprahmagazine #difficultmothers #difficultmotherdaughterrelationships
  •  6  0  5 hours ago
  • Why is the question...What do you want?...Sooo hard to anwser?! Anyone else struggle with this?
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I have the hardest time putting myself first. I became a Mom at the age of 20...I married at 22 became a stepmom to 2 amazing boys who moved in right after we were married...I got a crash course in parenting & trying to figure out how to make it work....I had my 2nd daughter at 23, when she was 6 months old, my husband was deployed to Iraq. I was 24 raising 4 kids on my own. Doing whatever I had to do for them.
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I have ALWAYS put everyone elses needs in front of my own. We all hear the saying....You have to take care of yourself to take care of others....which I believe to be true, but not easy. 🌼
Now at 37 with two kids out of the home and  2 others walking in their HS seasons...there has been a shift in me to want to explore...Who am I, what do I want, what do I need?...Let me just tell you that facing yourself can be SCARY!! What if what I want isn't the same as it used to be?...What if I want MORE?....More time, more freedom, a voice that is heard, a heart that is valued and a space to give more and serve more. 🌼
Change does NOT come easy, but I am trying...one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. We can all BE more, DO more, WANT more, and SERVE more. We just have to BELIEVE in our capacity to grow and put in the WORK!
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So tell me...WHAT DO YOU WANT?
  • Why is the question...What do you want?...Sooo hard to anwser?! Anyone else struggle with this?
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    I have the hardest time putting myself first. I became a Mom at the age of 20...I married at 22 became a stepmom to 2 amazing boys who moved in right after we were married...I got a crash course in parenting & trying to figure out how to make it work....I had my 2nd daughter at 23, when she was 6 months old, my husband was deployed to Iraq. I was 24 raising 4 kids on my own. Doing whatever I had to do for them.
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    I have ALWAYS put everyone elses needs in front of my own. We all hear the saying....You have to take care of yourself to take care of others....which I believe to be true, but not easy. 🌼
    Now at 37 with two kids out of the home and 2 others walking in their HS seasons...there has been a shift in me to want to explore...Who am I, what do I want, what do I need?...Let me just tell you that facing yourself can be SCARY!! What if what I want isn't the same as it used to be?...What if I want MORE?....More time, more freedom, a voice that is heard, a heart that is valued and a space to give more and serve more. 🌼
    Change does NOT come easy, but I am trying...one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. We can all BE more, DO more, WANT more, and SERVE more. We just have to BELIEVE in our capacity to grow and put in the WORK!
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    So tell me...WHAT DO YOU WANT?
  •  14  2  5 hours ago
  • It’s a lifestyle, not a hobby. 🤷🏻‍♀️
We aren’t the same boo. 💁🏻‍♀️
  • It’s a lifestyle, not a hobby. 🤷🏻‍♀️
    We aren’t the same boo. 💁🏻‍♀️
  •  82  6  5 hours ago
  • The struggle of learning to eat is real. 😅 How many times a day do YOU sweep?! 🧹
  • The struggle of learning to eat is real. 😅 How many times a day do YOU sweep?! 🧹
  •  17  1  6 hours ago
  • I work full-time, 8am-5pm. 
But also have a side business where I get to work on my health and well-being and help others do the same!

How cool is that?! Before starting this journey and business, one of my hesitations was that I didn't have the time.
I DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO WORK ON ME.

I used the excuse that I didn't have time and so I didn't do anything at all.
Finally, a dear friend got through to me and I realized that I needed to find the time.

Guess what?
I did.
I make time to workout every day.
I use time I already have to eat healthier (because it is no different than eating junk).
I make time to use my brain outside of my job, to think about different things.
I make time to help others do the same because it is in my heart to help.

This business is about well-being for me and those whom I help. That's it. I have the TIME for that. 💕
  • I work full-time, 8am-5pm.
    But also have a side business where I get to work on my health and well-being and help others do the same!

    How cool is that?! Before starting this journey and business, one of my hesitations was that I didn't have the time.
    I DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO WORK ON ME.

    I used the excuse that I didn't have time and so I didn't do anything at all.
    Finally, a dear friend got through to me and I realized that I needed to find the time.

    Guess what?
    I did.
    I make time to workout every day.
    I use time I already have to eat healthier (because it is no different than eating junk).
    I make time to use my brain outside of my job, to think about different things.
    I make time to help others do the same because it is in my heart to help.

    This business is about well-being for me and those whom I help. That's it. I have the TIME for that. 💕
  •  14  1  6 hours ago
  • TBT ♥️ this little man melts my heart !
  • TBT ♥️ this little man melts my heart !
  •  18  1  6 hours ago
  • She remembered who she was and the game changed. 💪🏼
  • She remembered who she was and the game changed. 💪🏼
  •  115  4  7 hours ago
  • ✨giveaway time✨ it’s wedding/summer/selfie season, so i’ve teamed up with @smilebrilliant, giving you a chance to win a $149 credit for whitening product! you can enter now, through the next 2 weeks. link in bio, and good luck!
#smilebrilliant #teethwhitening #giveaway
  • ✨giveaway time✨ it’s wedding/summer/selfie season, so i’ve teamed up with @smilebrilliant, giving you a chance to win a $149 credit for whitening product! you can enter now, through the next 2 weeks. link in bio, and good luck!
    #smilebrilliant #teethwhitening #giveaway
  •  60  4  7 hours ago
  • I love that one of his favorite things to do Is lift my shirt a little to get his face against my belly!!
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I like to believe that it reminds him of his first “home” when he listens to the noises my belly makes and feels the warmness of me against his face!
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Oh how I love this boy 😍
  • I love that one of his favorite things to do Is lift my shirt a little to get his face against my belly!!
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    I like to believe that it reminds him of his first “home” when he listens to the noises my belly makes and feels the warmness of me against his face!
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    Oh how I love this boy 😍
  •  22  2  7 hours ago
  • So I've not posted in a while. All the support from you guys along with a shed load of research into the stepmum process has made me feel so much better. I originally made this account as I was desperate for an outlet for my anxiety from it all. I kind of just fell into the role and completely underestimated how it would make me feel. Not having full control has always been difficult for me so co-parenting was never going to be a walk in the park. Luckily I've learned to just FLOAT as much as possible. More to follow.
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#stepmum #stepmom #stepparent #stepmomlife #stepmumlife #bonusmum #extramum #blended #blendedfamily #step #stepkids #stepchildren #step #justfloat
  • So I've not posted in a while. All the support from you guys along with a shed load of research into the stepmum process has made me feel so much better. I originally made this account as I was desperate for an outlet for my anxiety from it all. I kind of just fell into the role and completely underestimated how it would make me feel. Not having full control has always been difficult for me so co-parenting was never going to be a walk in the park. Luckily I've learned to just FLOAT as much as possible. More to follow.
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    #stepmum #stepmom #stepparent #stepmomlife #stepmumlife #bonusmum #extramum #blended #blendedfamily #step #stepkids #stepchildren #step #justfloat
  •  4  0  7 hours ago
  • I feel like this quote is hard for people. Admitting to ourselves that are talents and time are worth something is hard to admit! I wish this wasn’t true but it is! -
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We need to stop!
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Every single person on this world is valuable! Their time should be valued and their talents praised!
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The tv show Amsterdam had a good episode on this. On this particular episode it was proven that every single person has a talent. That talent was then used in someway to help pay back a medical bill.
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Now this show is fictional but imagine if we really treated people like that! How much better this world would be!
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  • I feel like this quote is hard for people. Admitting to ourselves that are talents and time are worth something is hard to admit! I wish this wasn’t true but it is! -
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    Every single person on this world is valuable! Their time should be valued and their talents praised!
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    The tv show Amsterdam had a good episode on this. On this particular episode it was proven that every single person has a talent. That talent was then used in someway to help pay back a medical bill.
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    Now this show is fictional but imagine if we really treated people like that! How much better this world would be!
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  •  13  3  8 hours ago

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  • I am absolutely BURSTING with pride for this little girl. This morning, she walked away with FIVE awards at her 3rd Grade Awards Ceremony. F I V E.⠀
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She's the only one in her class to receive that many. She's also the only girl in her class to receive the Student of the Year award, her second year in a row! She has the highest GPA of all of the girls in her class.⠀
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In addition to her awards, she also received a ticket to Six Flags for reading an extra 4 hours beyond weekly required time over the winter break. It's an achievement few kids qualified for.⠀
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She's also the only child in her class with divorced parents. The only one with 4 parents instead of 2. What if blended didn't mean broken? What if we began to see it for the advantage it is?⠀
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She has 4 teachers in her life with 4 different areas of expertise. She has 4 cheerleaders, 4 shoulders (actually 8, but bear with me) to cry on when things are tough, 4 hugs for every celebration.⠀
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Her odds weren't divided with her parents' split. They were doubled. Look at my award winner, y'all. She is changing the game.
  • I am absolutely BURSTING with pride for this little girl. This morning, she walked away with FIVE awards at her 3rd Grade Awards Ceremony. F I V E.⠀
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    She's the only one in her class to receive that many. She's also the only girl in her class to receive the Student of the Year award, her second year in a row! She has the highest GPA of all of the girls in her class.⠀
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    In addition to her awards, she also received a ticket to Six Flags for reading an extra 4 hours beyond weekly required time over the winter break. It's an achievement few kids qualified for.⠀
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    She's also the only child in her class with divorced parents. The only one with 4 parents instead of 2. What if blended didn't mean broken? What if we began to see it for the advantage it is?⠀
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    She has 4 teachers in her life with 4 different areas of expertise. She has 4 cheerleaders, 4 shoulders (actually 8, but bear with me) to cry on when things are tough, 4 hugs for every celebration.⠀
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    Her odds weren't divided with her parents' split. They were doubled. Look at my award winner, y'all. She is changing the game.
  •  257  39  23 hours ago
  • She remembered who she was and the game changed. 💪🏼
  • She remembered who she was and the game changed. 💪🏼
  •  115  4  7 hours ago

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  • Wearing a sweater in the end of May? YUP. Because it is freezing outside today😂
  • Wearing a sweater in the end of May? YUP. Because it is freezing outside today😂
  •  130  12  22 May, 2019

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  • Headed on our Honeymoon today ✈️
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Currently hanging out in Toronto and then headed to Rome. 
These last 5 months have been the exact same as the 5 years before 🤣🤣
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He’s my best friend, he gets on my nerves, he puts up with my ridiculous attitude and smiles at my horrible dance moves❤️🤗
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Life with you is fun! Let’s make some ridiculous memories and learn a little history#honeymoontravel
  • Headed on our Honeymoon today ✈️
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    Currently hanging out in Toronto and then headed to Rome.
    These last 5 months have been the exact same as the 5 years before 🤣🤣
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    He’s my best friend, he gets on my nerves, he puts up with my ridiculous attitude and smiles at my horrible dance moves❤️🤗
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    Life with you is fun! Let’s make some ridiculous memories and learn a little history #honeymoontravel
  •  132  13  22 May, 2019
  • שלבים כלליים לבניית משפחה משולבת מיטיבה:

הקשר הזוגי במרכז - הרומנטיקה, האינטימיות, השיחות והשיתופים- בניית הבסיס היציב וההבנה שמצאנו את בני הזוג שלנו, איתם יש לנו את הרצון לבנות פרק חדש בחיינו.
הפנמת תפקיד ההורה החורג; יצירת הקשר עם ילדי בני הזוג. בתחילה הכרות טבעית, לא מלחיצה, מותאמת לכל גיל ולילדים. אפשר לפעמים לייצר מפגשים של אחד על אחד עם הילד. אם וכאשר יש מתיחות ותחושה שאתם לא שלמים עם הבחירה שלכם בבן זוג גרוש עם ילדים- זה הזמן לפרק את זה בייעוץ. אל תחכו שיעברו כמה שנים, לרוב זה לא מסתדר מעצמו, אלא תחושות אלו רק הולכות ומרחיקות אתכם מהילדים של בן/ת הזוג, הבית הופך להיות מתוח והזוגיות מתחילה לייצר משקעים וכאב.
שילוב משפחות; חיבור בין הילדים משני הפרקים. ילדים ידעו להסתדר נפלא אם לא תפריעו להם ותגוננו עליהם מידי. אם אתם לא תייצרו תחרות ביניהם, אם לא תשוו ביניהם ואם לא תפחדו שהביולוגים שלכם מקבלים פחות מהביולוגים של הצד השני.
בניית חזון משפחתי לשנים הקרובות בהדרכה מקצועית. חשיבה על היבטים כלכליים, ילדים משותפים, מעבר מגורים משותף.
לאחר תקופה של התייצבות אפשר לדבר על מעבר למגורים משותפים עם הכנה לילדים, הגרושים ועצמכם. היכונו לקראת תקופה לחוצה ומתוחה שבסופה יהיה לכם מאוד כיף!
אם הגעתם עד לכאן ואתם עדיין עם כוחות, אהבה ואמונה שאתם עושים את הדבר הנכון- אתם כנראה עושים
את הדבר הנכון!

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    הקשר הזוגי במרכז - הרומנטיקה, האינטימיות, השיחות והשיתופים- בניית הבסיס היציב וההבנה שמצאנו את בני הזוג שלנו, איתם יש לנו את הרצון לבנות פרק חדש בחיינו.
    הפנמת תפקיד ההורה החורג; יצירת הקשר עם ילדי בני הזוג. בתחילה הכרות טבעית, לא מלחיצה, מותאמת לכל גיל ולילדים. אפשר לפעמים לייצר מפגשים של אחד על אחד עם הילד. אם וכאשר יש מתיחות ותחושה שאתם לא שלמים עם הבחירה שלכם בבן זוג גרוש עם ילדים- זה הזמן לפרק את זה בייעוץ. אל תחכו שיעברו כמה שנים, לרוב זה לא מסתדר מעצמו, אלא תחושות אלו רק הולכות ומרחיקות אתכם מהילדים של בן/ת הזוג, הבית הופך להיות מתוח והזוגיות מתחילה לייצר משקעים וכאב.
    שילוב משפחות; חיבור בין הילדים משני הפרקים. ילדים ידעו להסתדר נפלא אם לא תפריעו להם ותגוננו עליהם מידי. אם אתם לא תייצרו תחרות ביניהם, אם לא תשוו ביניהם ואם לא תפחדו שהביולוגים שלכם מקבלים פחות מהביולוגים של הצד השני.
    בניית חזון משפחתי לשנים הקרובות בהדרכה מקצועית. חשיבה על היבטים כלכליים, ילדים משותפים, מעבר מגורים משותף.
    לאחר תקופה של התייצבות אפשר לדבר על מעבר למגורים משותפים עם הכנה לילדים, הגרושים ועצמכם. היכונו לקראת תקופה לחוצה ומתוחה שבסופה יהיה לכם מאוד כיף!
    אם הגעתם עד לכאן ואתם עדיין עם כוחות, אהבה ואמונה שאתם עושים את הדבר הנכון- אתם כנראה עושים
    את הדבר הנכון!

    בהצלחה! .
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    . ‏ #stepmom #stepmum #stepmmother#stepmomsupport #stepmomlife #stepkids #stepmomproblems #divorce #stepmomproblem
    #אמאחורגת #משפחהחורגת #משפחהמעורבת #אמהותחורגות #אמהותביולוגיות #ילדיםביולוגים #ילדיםחורגים #פרקב #מיכלאיסטאלון
    #katebiscoe_ii
    #ייעוץזוגי #הוריםוילדים #הורים #משפחהשלי #הדרכתהורים #פסיכותרפיה #פסיכולוגיה
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