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  • Narcissistic rage can be defined as intense anger, aggression, or passive-aggression when a narcissist experiences a setback or disappointment, which shatters his (or her) illusions of grandiosity, entitlement, and superiority, and triggers inner inadequacy, shame, and vulnerability. #redflags #manipulation #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #abusebyproxy #flyingmonkeys #smearcompaign #triangulation #newsupply #newsupplyisclueless #hoovering #nocontact #empath #recovery #emtionalabuse #victim #narcopaths #drramani #understandingthenarc #narcissistrecovery #awareness #sociopath #karmaisreal #ptsd #gaslighting #narcopath #narcissisticrage #النرجسي #النرجسية
  • Narcissistic rage can be defined as intense anger, aggression, or passive-aggression when a narcissist experiences a setback or disappointment, which shatters his (or her) illusions of grandiosity, entitlement, and superiority, and triggers inner inadequacy, shame, and vulnerability. #redflags #manipulation #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #abusebyproxy #flyingmonkeys #smearcompaign #triangulation #newsupply #newsupplyisclueless #hoovering #nocontact #empath #recovery #emtionalabuse #victim #narcopaths #drramani #understandingthenarc #narcissistrecovery #awareness #sociopath #karmaisreal #ptsd #gaslighting #narcopath #narcissisticrage #النرجسي #النرجسية

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  • Narcissists hate to be confronted about their abuse or bad behaviour.  Narcissists have an inability to be accountable or responsible for their actions.

When you attempt to set a boundary or have a discussion with them about such topics they will undoubtedly suffer a narcissistic injury and then go into a narcissistic rage.

A narcissistic rage is very often the opposite of what we consider an angry "rage", it will frequently come in the form of the silent treatment; but make no mistake, just because they are not hitting or yelling, does not mean it's not abuse.

#narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #nocontact #narcissisticrage #silenttreatment #narcissisticinjury #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #bully #namecalling #hiddenabuse #blame #npd #withholding #punishment #abuse #toxicrelationship #abuser #smearcampaign #flyingmonkey #projection #devalue #discard #narcaway #lovelywarriors #lovebombing #recoveryfromabuse #movingon
  • Narcissists hate to be confronted about their abuse or bad behaviour. Narcissists have an inability to be accountable or responsible for their actions.

    When you attempt to set a boundary or have a discussion with them about such topics they will undoubtedly suffer a narcissistic injury and then go into a narcissistic rage.

    A narcissistic rage is very often the opposite of what we consider an angry "rage", it will frequently come in the form of the silent treatment; but make no mistake, just because they are not hitting or yelling, does not mean it's not abuse.

    #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #nocontact #narcissisticrage #silenttreatment #narcissisticinjury #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #bully #namecalling #hiddenabuse #blame #npd #withholding #punishment #abuse #toxicrelationship #abuser #smearcampaign #flyingmonkey #projection #devalue #discard #narcaway #lovelywarriors #lovebombing #recoveryfromabuse #movingon

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  • THE SILENT TREATMENT. This is NOT to be conflated with going #nocontact - the silent treatment is an insidious form of emotional abuse designed to inflict pain onto the victim by willfully ignoring them. Going no contact is a way of survival and safety once an abusive relationship has ended. Withholding affection is also not to be conflated with consent - deliberately refusing affection to your partner in order to punish them, is abusive and manipulative. Saying “no” to sex or touch, is okay and is not the same as the silent treatment. #silenttreatment is a childish, passive aggressive way to bully someone and an indication of poor communication skills. Sometimes, adults may not know how to communicate and must unlearn this terrible habit. However, in the context of narcissistic relationships, there is never any benevolent intentions or willingness to grow from bad habits.
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  • THE SILENT TREATMENT. This is NOT to be conflated with going #nocontact - the silent treatment is an insidious form of emotional abuse designed to inflict pain onto the victim by willfully ignoring them. Going no contact is a way of survival and safety once an abusive relationship has ended. Withholding affection is also not to be conflated with consent - deliberately refusing affection to your partner in order to punish them, is abusive and manipulative. Saying “no” to sex or touch, is okay and is not the same as the silent treatment. #silenttreatment is a childish, passive aggressive way to bully someone and an indication of poor communication skills. Sometimes, adults may not know how to communicate and must unlearn this terrible habit. However, in the context of narcissistic relationships, there is never any benevolent intentions or willingness to grow from bad habits.
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  • ***THESE ARE OLD MESSAGES FROM 2017**** Examples of #coercivecontrol #projection #belittling #gaslighting any tiny little thing he could use to accuse me of bad behavior, he would. He berated me relentlessly for scheduling a doctor appointment when I was seriously broke. He would not stop, just went on and on and on and on. And “you changed my mood”. Blaming someone for your anger is fucked up and abusive and never ok.
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  • ***THESE ARE OLD MESSAGES FROM 2017**** Examples of #coercivecontrol #projection #belittling #gaslighting any tiny little thing he could use to accuse me of bad behavior, he would. He berated me relentlessly for scheduling a doctor appointment when I was seriously broke. He would not stop, just went on and on and on and on. And “you changed my mood”. Blaming someone for your anger is fucked up and abusive and never ok.
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    #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #gaslightingawareness #gaslighting #gaslightingisabuse #emotionalabuse #manipulation #abuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #abuseisnotlove #abuseawareness #loveisrespect #lovedoesnthurt #lovebombing #hoovering #cycleofabuse #narcissisttexts #healthyrelationships #digitalabuse #abuseandstalking #emotionalvalidation #emotionalinvalidation #narcissisticrage #narcissisticinjury #narcissisticprojection

  •  29  3  28 March, 2020
  • This is also a way to prevent you from figuring them out, and catching them in their lies. They will convince you that YOU are the liar, even when you’re not. This game is endless, and one of the narc’s favorite tools of control. This goes hand in hand with “you have to earn my trust” (it’s not about trust and it never was about trust). You shouldn’t have to account for every minute of the day. .
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  • This is also a way to prevent you from figuring them out, and catching them in their lies. They will convince you that YOU are the liar, even when you’re not. This game is endless, and one of the narc’s favorite tools of control. This goes hand in hand with “you have to earn my trust” (it’s not about trust and it never was about trust). You shouldn’t have to account for every minute of the day. .
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  •  31  0  28 March, 2020
  • I didn't get my divorce this week, instead the judge postponed the case for one month due to this #coronavirus, he also requested the #narcissist to produce his entire bank statements from the day he married his office hoe Noora. (Something he's never shown)
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The day after these orders were made the childrens old iPad broke down, I've repaired it 7 times in the last 2 years but cannot now as I have only 30dirhams left until next week.
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My lawyers and children's school teachers advised me to ask the narc to provide the children with a new tablet so they don't miss their online learning. Within 30 mins of sending my email, I got the reply from the narc he was in the mall purchasing 3 new tablets and would deliver them within the hour.
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As relieved and grateful I am that my children can continue to study and play; it brought me back to this text exchange 2 years ago. See the narc had dissapeared to London for his birthday and told us he'd be back in 3 days. 7 Days later he hadn't called or returned and the children were asking me for Baba. When he read my messages and ignored me asking why wasn't he calling his kids and where was he(we didn't know which country)i called his office. (The first time in 7 years of marriage)
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The secretary lied and said he was in Bahrain for another 4 days. Upon finding out about that call with #narcissisticrage he turned up to our apartment within minutes infuriated at me for doing the heinous act of telling his secretary, I his wife, and kids didn't know where on earth he was, or when he was returning to UAE.
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To punish me he abruptly took the kids for a visit that extended late into the night, he scalded me and warned me to never ever again call his office, which number I had to find in Google, because "It doesn't look nice"
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To the narc image is everything. THIS is our tiny mould infested apartment he rents for us. They have to dig the cement walls out and rebuild every 6 weeks, the problem won't go away. Our house stinks and we are constantly getting sick, I have been requesting to the narc to let us move out for 2 years we've been here, to which he simply refuses. Yesterday when he delivered 👇🏻👇🏻 continued
  • I didn't get my divorce this week, instead the judge postponed the case for one month due to this #coronavirus, he also requested the #narcissist to produce his entire bank statements from the day he married his office hoe Noora. (Something he's never shown)
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    The day after these orders were made the childrens old iPad broke down, I've repaired it 7 times in the last 2 years but cannot now as I have only 30dirhams left until next week.
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    My lawyers and children's school teachers advised me to ask the narc to provide the children with a new tablet so they don't miss their online learning. Within 30 mins of sending my email, I got the reply from the narc he was in the mall purchasing 3 new tablets and would deliver them within the hour.
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    As relieved and grateful I am that my children can continue to study and play; it brought me back to this text exchange 2 years ago. See the narc had dissapeared to London for his birthday and told us he'd be back in 3 days. 7 Days later he hadn't called or returned and the children were asking me for Baba. When he read my messages and ignored me asking why wasn't he calling his kids and where was he(we didn't know which country)i called his office. (The first time in 7 years of marriage)
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    The secretary lied and said he was in Bahrain for another 4 days. Upon finding out about that call with #narcissisticrage he turned up to our apartment within minutes infuriated at me for doing the heinous act of telling his secretary, I his wife, and kids didn't know where on earth he was, or when he was returning to UAE.
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    To punish me he abruptly took the kids for a visit that extended late into the night, he scalded me and warned me to never ever again call his office, which number I had to find in Google, because "It doesn't look nice"
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    To the narc image is everything. THIS is our tiny mould infested apartment he rents for us. They have to dig the cement walls out and rebuild every 6 weeks, the problem won't go away. Our house stinks and we are constantly getting sick, I have been requesting to the narc to let us move out for 2 years we've been here, to which he simply refuses. Yesterday when he delivered 👇🏻👇🏻 continued

  •  22  29  27 March, 2020
  • And without the thrill of drama and talks and manipulations, you'll starve them. They'll wither. #greyrock #narcissisticrage
  • And without the thrill of drama and talks and manipulations, you'll starve them. They'll wither. #greyrock #narcissisticrage

  •  11  0  23 March, 2020
  • Narcissists hate to be confronted about their abuse or bad behaviour.  Narcissists have an inability to be accountable or responsible for their actions.

When you attempt to set a boundary or have a discussion with them about such topics they will undoubtedly suffer a narcissistic injury and then go into a narcissistic rage.

A narcissistic rage is very often the opposite of what we consider an angry "rage", it will frequently come in the form of the silent treatment; but make no mistake, just because they are not hitting or yelling, does not mean it's not abuse.

#narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #nocontact #narcissisticrage #silenttreatment #narcissisticinjury #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #bully #namecalling #hiddenabuse #blame #npd #withholding #punishment #abuse #toxicrelationship #abuser #smearcampaign #flyingmonkey #projection #devalue #discard #narcaway #lovelywarriors #lovebombing #recoveryfromabuse #movingon
  • Narcissists hate to be confronted about their abuse or bad behaviour. Narcissists have an inability to be accountable or responsible for their actions.

    When you attempt to set a boundary or have a discussion with them about such topics they will undoubtedly suffer a narcissistic injury and then go into a narcissistic rage.

    A narcissistic rage is very often the opposite of what we consider an angry "rage", it will frequently come in the form of the silent treatment; but make no mistake, just because they are not hitting or yelling, does not mean it's not abuse.

    #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #nocontact #narcissisticrage #silenttreatment #narcissisticinjury #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #bully #namecalling #hiddenabuse #blame #npd #withholding #punishment #abuse #toxicrelationship #abuser #smearcampaign #flyingmonkey #projection #devalue #discard #narcaway #lovelywarriors #lovebombing #recoveryfromabuse #movingon

  •  988  58  23 March, 2020
  • Narcissists regard sex with a healthy intimate partner as a narcissistic injury to which they react with narcissistic rage and other forms of externalized or mutated aggression.

Healthy sexual relations require give and take, a reciprocity that negates the narcissist's entitlement to special treatment: his needs - and only his needs - should be catered to. The partner is there to service them. He masturbates with the partner's body and often also humiliates or even hurts her sexually. She is his sex doll, sex slave, or sex pet.

Moreover: the narcissist perceives sex as a competition against prior entrants, replete with vigorous performance criteria. In his mind, his partner is the referee and her orgasms the sexometer. This engenders in him performance anxiety and resentment for being dissected, compared, and judged at all: his grandiose omnipotence is challenged and he is rendered hypervigilant.

The narcissist's sex is largely auto-erotic: he makes love to himself via the reflecting agency of his partner. More evolved forms of intercourse involving authentic collaboration towards mutual gratification elude him and infuriate him as they reveal his incompetence and impotent emotional illiteracy.

#samvaknin #sex #narcissist #narcissisticinjury #narcissisticrage #reciprocity #aggression #autoeroticism #masturbation #anxiety #performance #orgasm #intimacy #partner
  • Narcissists regard sex with a healthy intimate partner as a narcissistic injury to which they react with narcissistic rage and other forms of externalized or mutated aggression.

    Healthy sexual relations require give and take, a reciprocity that negates the narcissist's entitlement to special treatment: his needs - and only his needs - should be catered to. The partner is there to service them. He masturbates with the partner's body and often also humiliates or even hurts her sexually. She is his sex doll, sex slave, or sex pet.

    Moreover: the narcissist perceives sex as a competition against prior entrants, replete with vigorous performance criteria. In his mind, his partner is the referee and her orgasms the sexometer. This engenders in him performance anxiety and resentment for being dissected, compared, and judged at all: his grandiose omnipotence is challenged and he is rendered hypervigilant.

    The narcissist's sex is largely auto-erotic: he makes love to himself via the reflecting agency of his partner. More evolved forms of intercourse involving authentic collaboration towards mutual gratification elude him and infuriate him as they reveal his incompetence and impotent emotional illiteracy.

    #samvaknin #sex #narcissist #narcissisticinjury #narcissisticrage #reciprocity #aggression #autoeroticism #masturbation #anxiety #performance #orgasm #intimacy #partner

  •  53  7  21 March, 2020
  • Dr. Trump and #covid_19 -Part 1- Moments after the doctor had made it clear that there were anecdotal reports but no clinical evidence that chloroquine might be effective or safe for patients with Covid-19, or could be used as a prophylaxis, as Trump had suggested, the president said, “I think, without seeing too much, I’m probably more of a fan of that, maybe than anybody.”
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When Peter Alexander of NBC News then noted that Fauci had made it clear that “there is no magic drug for coronavirus,” Trump said: “I disagree. Maybe and maybe not.”
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“I will say that I am a man that comes from a very positive school when it comes to in particular one of these drugs, and we’ll see how it works out,” Trump added. “I’m not saying it will, but I think people may be surprised. By the way, that would be a game-changer.”
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“Is it possible that your impulse to put a positive spin on things may be giving Americans a false sense of hope?” Alexander asked him. “Are you misrepresenting our preparedness right now?”
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“I sure as hell think we ought to give it a try,” Trump concluded. “I mean there’s been some interesting things happened — and some good, very good things. Let’s see what happens, we have nothing to lose. You know the expression, What the hell do you have to lose?”
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When Alexander tried to follow up by asking Trump what message he had for millions of Americans who are scared, citing the latest death toll, the president replied: “I say that you’re a terrible reporter, that’s what I say.”*
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*https://theintercept.com/2020/03/20/trump-disagrees-top-immunologist-untested-drug-treatment-covid-19/
  • Dr. Trump and #covid_19 -Part 1- Moments after the doctor had made it clear that there were anecdotal reports but no clinical evidence that chloroquine might be effective or safe for patients with Covid-19, or could be used as a prophylaxis, as Trump had suggested, the president said, “I think, without seeing too much, I’m probably more of a fan of that, maybe than anybody.”
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    When Peter Alexander of NBC News then noted that Fauci had made it clear that “there is no magic drug for coronavirus,” Trump said: “I disagree. Maybe and maybe not.”
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    “I will say that I am a man that comes from a very positive school when it comes to in particular one of these drugs, and we’ll see how it works out,” Trump added. “I’m not saying it will, but I think people may be surprised. By the way, that would be a game-changer.”
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    [The arguing continues and eventually...]
    “Is it possible that your impulse to put a positive spin on things may be giving Americans a false sense of hope?” Alexander asked him. “Are you misrepresenting our preparedness right now?”
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    “I sure as hell think we ought to give it a try,” Trump concluded. “I mean there’s been some interesting things happened — and some good, very good things. Let’s see what happens, we have nothing to lose. You know the expression, What the hell do you have to lose?”
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    When Alexander tried to follow up by asking Trump what message he had for millions of Americans who are scared, citing the latest death toll, the president replied: “I say that you’re a terrible reporter, that’s what I say.”*
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    *https://theintercept.com/2020/03/20/trump-disagrees-top-immunologist-untested-drug-treatment-covid-19/

  •  18  2  21 March, 2020
  • The most bizarre circumstance I’ve ever been in was my first LTR, who unfortunately was extremely narcissistic. To make matters worse, he was the favorite child of two highly narcissistic and abusive parents. They had such an abnormal attachment to their grown son, and enable his behavior and abuse. It’s a pattern for them... groom new love interest of son, make her earn their trust, then devalue, manipulate, HORRIFICALLY abuse, discard, then blame it all on the woman and gaslight her. To this day I’m blamed for his lack of success. His mother would yell and scream at me that I’m a “useless whore, YOUR selfishness RUINED MY SON, he’s too good for you, you are crazy, you are a slut, you have dirtied MY SON” (he is a grown man in his 30s 😑) they loved to give details about how they wanted to torture and maim and even kill my parents, my siblings, even my pets. Come to realize it’s all a load of shit. This was to instill fear.
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  • The most bizarre circumstance I’ve ever been in was my first LTR, who unfortunately was extremely narcissistic. To make matters worse, he was the favorite child of two highly narcissistic and abusive parents. They had such an abnormal attachment to their grown son, and enable his behavior and abuse. It’s a pattern for them... groom new love interest of son, make her earn their trust, then devalue, manipulate, HORRIFICALLY abuse, discard, then blame it all on the woman and gaslight her. To this day I’m blamed for his lack of success. His mother would yell and scream at me that I’m a “useless whore, YOUR selfishness RUINED MY SON, he’s too good for you, you are crazy, you are a slut, you have dirtied MY SON” (he is a grown man in his 30s 😑) they loved to give details about how they wanted to torture and maim and even kill my parents, my siblings, even my pets. Come to realize it’s all a load of shit. This was to instill fear.
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    #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #gaslightingawareness #gaslighting #gaslightingisabuse #emotionalabuse #manipulation #abuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #abuseisnotlove #abuseawareness #empath #healthycommunication #loveisrespect #lovedoesnthurt #lovebombing #hoovering #cycleofabuse #narcissisttexts #healthyrelationships #digitalabuse #abuseandstalking #emotionalvalidation #emotionalinvalidation #narcissisticrage #narcissisticinjury #narcissisticprojection

  •  18  4  20 March, 2020

Top #narcissisticrage Posts

  • Abuse is never your fault, period! Please know you did not do anything to cause it, or attract it into your life! The only thing that causes abuse, is abusers making a conscious decision to hurt others for personal gain, and they are completely responsible for their abhorrent actions!
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While it is true that narcissists/sociopaths are predatory, and sometimes go for what they perceive to be the ‘low hanging fruit,’ absolutely anyone can be the target of abuse, just like absolutely anyone can be the victim of any crime.
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By ‘low hanging fruit’, I mean those of us who may be vulnerable in some way, perhaps due to being a childhood abuse survivor. Please know that people who intentionally prey upon those who have endured abuse as a child are sadistic, vile cowards!
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  • Abuse is never your fault, period! Please know you did not do anything to cause it, or attract it into your life! The only thing that causes abuse, is abusers making a conscious decision to hurt others for personal gain, and they are completely responsible for their abhorrent actions!
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    While it is true that narcissists/sociopaths are predatory, and sometimes go for what they perceive to be the ‘low hanging fruit,’ absolutely anyone can be the target of abuse, just like absolutely anyone can be the victim of any crime.
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    By ‘low hanging fruit’, I mean those of us who may be vulnerable in some way, perhaps due to being a childhood abuse survivor. Please know that people who intentionally prey upon those who have endured abuse as a child are sadistic, vile cowards!
    ~ @dont_gaslight_me_bruh
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  •  2,398  87  4 December, 2019
  • Narcissists and other bullies love to orchestrate, and then seize upon your emotions when it suits them. However, if they feel inconvenienced or slighted in any way, expect to be cruelly squashed by them.
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💕 For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term, ‘catching feelings’ means to develop romantic feelings for someone you’ve been dating. If the narcissist in your life happens to be a lover or dating partner, they usually start the abuse cycle via manipulative love bombing to pique your interest in them. These highly toxic individuals will then suddenly start to lose interest in you by design, or perhaps act surprised/annoyed once you start reciprocating. They’re infamous for blowing hot and cold, and will pathologize and leverage your romantic feelings with glee.
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  • Narcissists and other bullies love to orchestrate, and then seize upon your emotions when it suits them. However, if they feel inconvenienced or slighted in any way, expect to be cruelly squashed by them.
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    💕 For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term, ‘catching feelings’ means to develop romantic feelings for someone you’ve been dating. If the narcissist in your life happens to be a lover or dating partner, they usually start the abuse cycle via manipulative love bombing to pique your interest in them. These highly toxic individuals will then suddenly start to lose interest in you by design, or perhaps act surprised/annoyed once you start reciprocating. They’re infamous for blowing hot and cold, and will pathologize and leverage your romantic feelings with glee.
    ~ @dont_gaslight_me_bruh
    💗💗💗💗💗💗

  •  1,323  52  9 December, 2019
  • Be prepared 🕊
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Knowing these pattens will prepare you for the worst.
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While you can ‘hope’ for the best.
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There are patterns and cycles to their behaviour.
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Eyes wide open ladies & gentlemen.
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💜Book your complimentary ten min phone session using the ‘book’ option in profile 💜Pls be as thorough as you can answering the questions.
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#wolfinsheepsclothing #covertnarcissist #healingyourself #eyeswideopen #donotengage #youdeservemore #unhealthyrelationships #toxicpeople #narcissisticrage #narcissisticabuserecovery #nocontact #narcissisticabuse #unmaskingmovement #divorcinganarcissist #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #toxicrelationships #empath #toxiclove #highconflictdivorce #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #narcissisticbehaviour #narcproofandthriving
  • Be prepared 🕊
    *
    Knowing these pattens will prepare you for the worst.
    *
    While you can ‘hope’ for the best.
    *
    There are patterns and cycles to their behaviour.
    *
    Eyes wide open ladies & gentlemen.
    *
    💜Book your complimentary ten min phone session using the ‘book’ option in profile 💜Pls be as thorough as you can answering the questions.
    *
    🌈Or click link in bio to join the Facebook community 🌈
    *
    #wolfinsheepsclothing #covertnarcissist #healingyourself #eyeswideopen #donotengage #youdeservemore #unhealthyrelationships #toxicpeople #narcissisticrage #narcissisticabuserecovery #nocontact #narcissisticabuse #unmaskingmovement #divorcinganarcissist #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #toxicrelationships #empath #toxiclove #highconflictdivorce #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #narcissisticbehaviour #narcproofandthriving

  •  1,070  63  5 February, 2020
  • Waarom blijven mensen in een destructieve relatie?

Deze vraag komt vaak voor. Op zich logisch, alleen voor de ander erg pijnlijk. Ga het maar eens uitleggen. Dit is pas jaren later mogelijk. Ik kan het nu voor het eerst pas echt verklaren. Vier en half jaar later. Er zijn meerdere redenen, maar de belangrijkste is de trauma bonding.

Het is de cyclus van aandacht, gevolgd door verwaarlozing, of vriendelijkheid gevolgd door kwaadaardigheid. Dit zal een traumaband creëren. En dit is een chemisch proces in de hersenen. 
Je hersenen zullen oscilleren tussen het leegpompen van oxytocine (bindend hormoon) en cortisol (stresshormoon). De intensiteit en instabiliteit van deze chemische cocktail kweekt een orkaan in je schedel en hart. Je voelt je onveilig. Een sudderende angst die altijd aanwezig is op de achtergrond overspoelt je en ondermijnt je welzijn. Het wordt moeilijk om te slapen of te focussen.

Hersenchemie speelt hier een enorme rol. Om dit proces enigszins te kunnen begrijpen en accepteren, moet je de belangrijkste motivatie en mechanica van de hersenen begrijpen. Het hoofddoel van je hersenen is om je veilig te houden, niet gelukkig. Geluk wordt pas mogelijk nadat je hersenen ervan overtuigd zijn dat je veilig bent.

Je jaren bij de narcist in één huis kunnen dus ervoor zorgen dat je jezelf wijsmaakt dat je veilig bent. Het weten is natuurlijk een ander verhaal. De trauma bond is dus puur een chemische reactie van hersenen die je beschermen. Vandaar dat mensen in deze situatie erg onzeker worden, het wordt steeds lastiger om te vertrekken.

#hiddenabuse #emotionalabuse #narcissist #narcawareness #psychopath #sociopath #traumabonding #stockholmsyndrome #narcissistabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #gaslighting #narcissisticrage #victimblaming #silenttreatment #parentalalienation
  • Waarom blijven mensen in een destructieve relatie?

    Deze vraag komt vaak voor. Op zich logisch, alleen voor de ander erg pijnlijk. Ga het maar eens uitleggen. Dit is pas jaren later mogelijk. Ik kan het nu voor het eerst pas echt verklaren. Vier en half jaar later. Er zijn meerdere redenen, maar de belangrijkste is de trauma bonding.

    Het is de cyclus van aandacht, gevolgd door verwaarlozing, of vriendelijkheid gevolgd door kwaadaardigheid. Dit zal een traumaband creëren. En dit is een chemisch proces in de hersenen.
    Je hersenen zullen oscilleren tussen het leegpompen van oxytocine (bindend hormoon) en cortisol (stresshormoon). De intensiteit en instabiliteit van deze chemische cocktail kweekt een orkaan in je schedel en hart. Je voelt je onveilig. Een sudderende angst die altijd aanwezig is op de achtergrond overspoelt je en ondermijnt je welzijn. Het wordt moeilijk om te slapen of te focussen.

    Hersenchemie speelt hier een enorme rol. Om dit proces enigszins te kunnen begrijpen en accepteren, moet je de belangrijkste motivatie en mechanica van de hersenen begrijpen. Het hoofddoel van je hersenen is om je veilig te houden, niet gelukkig. Geluk wordt pas mogelijk nadat je hersenen ervan overtuigd zijn dat je veilig bent.

    Je jaren bij de narcist in één huis kunnen dus ervoor zorgen dat je jezelf wijsmaakt dat je veilig bent. Het weten is natuurlijk een ander verhaal. De trauma bond is dus puur een chemische reactie van hersenen die je beschermen. Vandaar dat mensen in deze situatie erg onzeker worden, het wordt steeds lastiger om te vertrekken.

    #hiddenabuse #emotionalabuse #narcissist #narcawareness #psychopath #sociopath #traumabonding #stockholmsyndrome #narcissistabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #gaslighting #narcissisticrage #victimblaming #silenttreatment #parentalalienation

  •  144  3  3 December, 2019