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  • Hidup itu proses.
Jalani
Nikmati
Syukuri 
Tidak pernah menyesal menjadi diriku yang dulu sampai berada di titik ini. Semuanya adalah perjalanan hidup yang tak terbayarkan oleh apapun. Sekarang waktunya lebih memperbaiki diri. Karena aku ingin terlihat baik saat menghadapNya. 
#selfreminder #forgivenotforget #hijrahku #istiqomah #belajar #godknowbetter
  • Hidup itu proses.
    Jalani
    Nikmati
    Syukuri
    Tidak pernah menyesal menjadi diriku yang dulu sampai berada di titik ini. Semuanya adalah perjalanan hidup yang tak terbayarkan oleh apapun. Sekarang waktunya lebih memperbaiki diri. Karena aku ingin terlihat baik saat menghadapNya.
    #selfreminder #forgivenotforget #hijrahku #istiqomah #belajar #godknowbetter
  •  9  0  17 May, 2019

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  • 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜. -Lailah Gifty Akita
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In frame : @frill_id
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#youaregettingthere #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  • 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜. -Lailah Gifty Akita
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    In frame : @frill_id
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    #youaregettingthere #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  •  245  3  13 May, 2019

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  • Common is the truth. Hurt people, hurt people. It’s okay to talk about what your feeling and why, it’s the only way we can heal individually and as country. It’s not a race thing it’s a people thing. #SupportOne #ListenToUnderstand #ForgiveNotForget
  • Common is the truth. Hurt people, hurt people. It’s okay to talk about what your feeling and why, it’s the only way we can heal individually and as country. It’s not a race thing it’s a people thing. #SupportOne #ListenToUnderstand #ForgiveNotForget
  •  6  0  11 May, 2019
  • “𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙮. 𝙄𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖𝙣 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡.” - gandhi
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#romansboost #goodforyou #livehappier
#cleanlabel #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  • “𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙮. 𝙄𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖𝙣 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡.” - gandhi
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    #romansboost #goodforyou #livehappier
    #cleanlabel #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  •  40  5  11 May, 2019
  • “𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙮. 𝙄𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡.” - gandhi
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#rejuve #goodforyou #livehappier
#cleanlabel #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  • “𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙮. 𝙄𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡.” - gandhi
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    Stay hydrated with @rejuveid 's Copacobana from their Hydrating Elixirs line up, it helps to replenish your energy between sets, during extensive workouts, or even productive hours , so don't let fatigue push you away from your goals, stay hydrated 🔥
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    Courtesy : @rejuveid
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    #rejuve #goodforyou #livehappier
    #cleanlabel #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  •  276  30  11 May, 2019
  • "It's okay". Read it out aloud to you everyday.
  • "It's okay". Read it out aloud to you everyday.
  •  31  3  10 May, 2019
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To be happy,
never wish anyone pain but wish them healing, no matter how bad they treated you & caused you pain.. Soon you'll realise that Allah will provide you from sources that you could never imagine😌😌😌
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#GoodNite #PubgOn #Rest #forgivenotforget
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    To be happy,
    never wish anyone pain but wish them healing, no matter how bad they treated you & caused you pain.. Soon you'll realise that Allah will provide you from sources that you could never imagine😌😌😌
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    #GoodNite #PubgOn #Rest #forgivenotforget
  •  21  0  9 May, 2019
  • Ya gitu deh....
Maaf lahir bathin ya... Fokus kita ke ibadah, sibukkan dan lindungi diri dengan pahala aja,  Urusan dengan kamu bukan lagi hal yg penting utk dipikirkan di padang mahsyar kelak. 
Kebayangkan kalau kamu termasuk insan penyebar hoax? Ujaran kebencian? Provokator? Playing victim? Berapa juta orang harus kamu mintain maaf? Kepentingan duniamu tak sebanding kebutuhan akhiratmu (kalau masih percaya hari akhir). #lovemylife  #hidupjujur #janganlupabersyukur #nodrama 
#forgivenotforget
  • Ya gitu deh....
    Maaf lahir bathin ya... Fokus kita ke ibadah, sibukkan dan lindungi diri dengan pahala aja, Urusan dengan kamu bukan lagi hal yg penting utk dipikirkan di padang mahsyar kelak.
    Kebayangkan kalau kamu termasuk insan penyebar hoax? Ujaran kebencian? Provokator? Playing victim? Berapa juta orang harus kamu mintain maaf? Kepentingan duniamu tak sebanding kebutuhan akhiratmu (kalau masih percaya hari akhir). #lovemylife #hidupjujur #janganlupabersyukur #nodrama
    #forgivenotforget
  •  32  4  7 May, 2019
  • Last year didn't worked out well for me. Yeahahahaha
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#dare #people #kind #forgivenotforget #do
#asmuchyoucan #beneath
#life #intended .
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And Now,
I look up n it's just me standing in the mirror who possess the energy to swallow anything that barred me from my desires.
I don't feel a thing now cause it was always our expectation that made us weaker and will stronger.
  • Last year didn't worked out well for me. Yeahahahaha
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    #dare #people #kind #forgivenotforget #do
    #asmuchyoucan #beneath
    #life #intended .
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    And Now,
    I look up n it's just me standing in the mirror who possess the energy to swallow anything that barred me from my desires.
    I don't feel a thing now cause it was always our expectation that made us weaker and will stronger.
  •  37  0  2 May, 2019
  • Hello my MAY 😁😁 วันนี้คุณหมวยเค้าก็จะอารมณ์ดีละ ได้ไปปล่อยปลา ปล่อยกบ รวม 165 ชีวิต 🐟🐠🐸 ขอเผื่อแผ่บุญในครั้งนี้ให้กับทุกๆท่านด้วยนะคะ รวมถึงเจ้ากรรมนายเวรต่างๆ ด้วยนะค่ะ 🙏 🙏 #Forgiveness​ #HappyMyMay #MakeMerit #ReleaseFish #SomePartsFromKatasit #SomePartsForYou #ForgiveNotForget #TooGoodAtGoodbyes #10yearsrelationship​
  • Hello my MAY 😁😁 วันนี้คุณหมวยเค้าก็จะอารมณ์ดีละ ได้ไปปล่อยปลา ปล่อยกบ รวม 165 ชีวิต 🐟🐠🐸 ขอเผื่อแผ่บุญในครั้งนี้ให้กับทุกๆท่านด้วยนะคะ รวมถึงเจ้ากรรมนายเวรต่างๆ ด้วยนะค่ะ 🙏 🙏 #Forgiveness​ #HappyMyMay #MakeMerit #ReleaseFish #SomePartsFromKatasit #SomePartsForYou #ForgiveNotForget #TooGoodAtGoodbyes #10yearsrelationship​
  •  10  0  1 May, 2019
  • ***trigger warning for mentions of abuse***
Forgiveness. A word so many of us know, but a concept so few seem to put into practice.
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I am a survivor of domestic abuse. It took a long time for me to accept that I had been a victim. I wasn't physically harmed. I wasn't raped. But I was emotionally and mentally manipulated, violated, and broken. And those forms are valid abuse as much as the physical manifestations. That took longer for me to understand.
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In the years since exiting some abusive and otherwise toxic relationships, I was forced to decide what kind of person I wanted to be. Did I want to forgive my abusers, or did I want to harbor anger toward them indefinitely? One of those paths is certainly easier than the other, but I chose the long, hard path to forgiveness.
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I forgive those who have harmed me, manipulated me. I forgive myself for the time I spent without taking action, all the hiding I did. I forgive those close to me for not seeing the signs of abuse or intervening. I forgive others for the discomfort I have endured in public where abusive situations are joked about, for sarcastic remarks when I speak up.
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That is my forgiveness mantra I developed with my therapist. On bad days I have to repeat it to myself multiple times, remind myself I have the power to forgive and the power to overcome my past. On good days, I may not recite the mantra at all, my heart is filled with positive things and my forgiveness frees me. However, I certainly do not ever forget. But learning to forgive, truly forgive, has allowed me to move forward and grow into the person I want to be.
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This month marks 5 years since I left my abusive long-term relationship, which is important to me. I want to really express that while forgiveness of others is empowering, perhaps forgiving yourself is the most powerful. In any situation in your life right now, I challenge you to forgive someone, for something small or big -- your partner for forgetting to take the trash out, the driver who cut you off in traffic, the one you thought you loved who only took advantage of you. Choose forgiveness and see how it changes you. ❤️
  • ***trigger warning for mentions of abuse***
    Forgiveness. A word so many of us know, but a concept so few seem to put into practice.
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    I am a survivor of domestic abuse. It took a long time for me to accept that I had been a victim. I wasn't physically harmed. I wasn't raped. But I was emotionally and mentally manipulated, violated, and broken. And those forms are valid abuse as much as the physical manifestations. That took longer for me to understand.
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    In the years since exiting some abusive and otherwise toxic relationships, I was forced to decide what kind of person I wanted to be. Did I want to forgive my abusers, or did I want to harbor anger toward them indefinitely? One of those paths is certainly easier than the other, but I chose the long, hard path to forgiveness.
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    I forgive those who have harmed me, manipulated me. I forgive myself for the time I spent without taking action, all the hiding I did. I forgive those close to me for not seeing the signs of abuse or intervening. I forgive others for the discomfort I have endured in public where abusive situations are joked about, for sarcastic remarks when I speak up.
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    That is my forgiveness mantra I developed with my therapist. On bad days I have to repeat it to myself multiple times, remind myself I have the power to forgive and the power to overcome my past. On good days, I may not recite the mantra at all, my heart is filled with positive things and my forgiveness frees me. However, I certainly do not ever forget. But learning to forgive, truly forgive, has allowed me to move forward and grow into the person I want to be.
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    This month marks 5 years since I left my abusive long-term relationship, which is important to me. I want to really express that while forgiveness of others is empowering, perhaps forgiving yourself is the most powerful. In any situation in your life right now, I challenge you to forgive someone, for something small or big -- your partner for forgetting to take the trash out, the driver who cut you off in traffic, the one you thought you loved who only took advantage of you. Choose forgiveness and see how it changes you. ❤️
  •  27  4  30 April, 2019

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  • Healing || 💔 -> ❤️ || I'm not going to lie; these past few months have been very trying. I have had multiple occasions where I have been literally left. Stood up last minute or just all together excluded from huge life steps by people who I have loved very much and thought of them as my core. As a result, I have been caring so much pain and anger, and doubt. I have been asking myself, "why did they do this to me?" But the truth is no one did anything T O me. I can't control people's actions, no matter how much I try and love them.  And for me, that's been hard to accept. It wasn't until I came across this statement by one of my favorite writers, Rupi Kaur that reminded me that the way people decide to treat you or exit out of your life is not a reflection of Y O U. You can respect and smother people with all the love you have. You can support them and be their cheerleaders, and offer them opportunities. Yet, that still won't impact their actions because at the end of the day we all see the world through our own bubbles and act accordingly. 
So if you've been feeling like me lately, personally attacked, disrespected, or betrayed know that T H E I R actions are not on Y O U. But what is on Y O U is how you deal with all these feelings and how you heal from it. Yes, H E A L! We eventually just have to figure out a way of how to let it go because if we don't our wounds will continue to bleed, and we will end up bleeding all over the wrong people.
  • Healing || 💔 -> ❤️ || I'm not going to lie; these past few months have been very trying. I have had multiple occasions where I have been literally left. Stood up last minute or just all together excluded from huge life steps by people who I have loved very much and thought of them as my core. As a result, I have been caring so much pain and anger, and doubt. I have been asking myself, "why did they do this to me?" But the truth is no one did anything T O me. I can't control people's actions, no matter how much I try and love them.  And for me, that's been hard to accept. It wasn't until I came across this statement by one of my favorite writers, Rupi Kaur that reminded me that the way people decide to treat you or exit out of your life is not a reflection of Y O U. You can respect and smother people with all the love you have. You can support them and be their cheerleaders, and offer them opportunities. Yet, that still won't impact their actions because at the end of the day we all see the world through our own bubbles and act accordingly.
    So if you've been feeling like me lately, personally attacked, disrespected, or betrayed know that T H E I R actions are not on Y O U. But what is on Y O U is how you deal with all these feelings and how you heal from it. Yes, H E A L! We eventually just have to figure out a way of how to let it go because if we don't our wounds will continue to bleed, and we will end up bleeding all over the wrong people.
  •  107  36  5 March, 2019

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  • การที่ไม่พูดด้วยและเพิกเฉยกลับ นั้นคือคำตอบที่ชัดเจนและดีที่สุดสำหรับบางคน พูดมากและบ่อยๆไปก็มีแต่เราที่เหนื่อย #quoteoftheday #forgivenotforget #dramaticalmurder
  • การที่ไม่พูดด้วยและเพิกเฉยกลับ นั้นคือคำตอบที่ชัดเจนและดีที่สุดสำหรับบางคน พูดมากและบ่อยๆไปก็มีแต่เราที่เหนื่อย #quoteoftheday #forgivenotforget #dramaticalmurder
  •  287  2  10 May, 2015

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  • This is what helped me. Once I knew how much I was forgiven I could then release the noose from my neck that I was choking myself on.
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“Peter came to him and asked, ‘Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?’ ‘No, not seven times,’ Jesus replied, ‘but seventy times seven!’” (Matthew 18:21-22).
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Forgiveness is rarely a one-time event. So how often do you have to keep releasing your right to get even? Until you stop feeling the hurt. Then you’ll know you’ve forgiven that person.
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Peter thought he was being pretty generous. Under Jewish law, you had to forgive a person three times and that was it. You didn’t have to forgive them anymore. So Peter’s thinking, “The law says three times. How about if I double it, and add in one for good measure? Seven times? (God’s going to be really impressed with this!)”
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And Jesus says, “Wrong! You’re not even close! How about seventy times seven!” He’s saying you have to just keep on doing it. You keep on forgiving until the pain stops. Every time you remember that hurt, you make an intentional choice to say, “God, that person really hurt me, and it still hurts. But because I want to be filled with love and not resentment, I am choosing to give up my right to get even and wish bad on that person. I am choosing to bless those who hurt me. God, I pray you’ll bless their life — not because they deserve it. They don’t. I don’t deserve your blessing either, God. But I pray that you’d show grace to them like you’ve shown to me.”
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It’s not easy. In fact, I have no doubt that for some reading this, your marriage is about to self-destruct — not because of the hurt but because of the unforgiveness. It’s not the hurt but the refusal to forgive that destroys a marriage.
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You may say, “I don’t feel like forgiving.” Who does? Nobody ever feels like forgiving. You do it because it’s the right thing to do, and you do it to get on with your life. These steps are not easy, but with God’s power, you can do it.
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- What hurt from the past still brings you pain? How can forgiveness help you move forward?
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#forgiven #forgive #forgiveness #forgiveme #forgivenessquotes #forgivenotforget #forgivenessiskey #grace
  • This is what helped me. Once I knew how much I was forgiven I could then release the noose from my neck that I was choking myself on.
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    “Peter came to him and asked, ‘Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?’ ‘No, not seven times,’ Jesus replied, ‘but seventy times seven!’” (Matthew 18:21-22).
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    Forgiveness is rarely a one-time event. So how often do you have to keep releasing your right to get even? Until you stop feeling the hurt. Then you’ll know you’ve forgiven that person.
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    Peter thought he was being pretty generous. Under Jewish law, you had to forgive a person three times and that was it. You didn’t have to forgive them anymore. So Peter’s thinking, “The law says three times. How about if I double it, and add in one for good measure? Seven times? (God’s going to be really impressed with this!)”
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    And Jesus says, “Wrong! You’re not even close! How about seventy times seven!” He’s saying you have to just keep on doing it. You keep on forgiving until the pain stops. Every time you remember that hurt, you make an intentional choice to say, “God, that person really hurt me, and it still hurts. But because I want to be filled with love and not resentment, I am choosing to give up my right to get even and wish bad on that person. I am choosing to bless those who hurt me. God, I pray you’ll bless their life — not because they deserve it. They don’t. I don’t deserve your blessing either, God. But I pray that you’d show grace to them like you’ve shown to me.”
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    It’s not easy. In fact, I have no doubt that for some reading this, your marriage is about to self-destruct — not because of the hurt but because of the unforgiveness. It’s not the hurt but the refusal to forgive that destroys a marriage.
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    You may say, “I don’t feel like forgiving.” Who does? Nobody ever feels like forgiving. You do it because it’s the right thing to do, and you do it to get on with your life. These steps are not easy, but with God’s power, you can do it.
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    - What hurt from the past still brings you pain? How can forgiveness help you move forward?
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    #forgiven #forgive #forgiveness #forgiveme #forgivenessquotes #forgivenotforget #forgivenessiskey #grace
  •  517  21  20 August, 2018
  • 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜. -Lailah Gifty Akita
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In frame : @frill_id
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#youaregettingthere #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  • 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜. -Lailah Gifty Akita
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    In frame : @frill_id
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    #youaregettingthere #restnotgiveup #forgivenotforget
  •  245  3  13 May, 2019