Latest #emotionalabuse Posts
- FULL STOP: Mental Illness is not an excuse for abuse. Read below. www.thehotline.org. Hotline by phone at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). #Repost @jordanpickellcounselling with @get_repost
We have so much compassion for other people struggling with past trauma and mental illness, we might ignore our own boundaries to be accommodating, even when they are being harmful. Full stop: trauma and mental illness doesn’t excuse abuse. Does this person treat everyone in this same harmful manner? Or is there a separation between public image and private behaviour? Abusing is beyond single incidences of harmful behaviour. Abusing is systematic. Abusing is reserved for certain people in the person’s life. Abusing is a choice. We must separate it from mental illness. I want to go further and introduce an idea that might turn your stomach: some people take up the language of mental health to enact their abuse. They use it to hurt people. They use it to give them an air of authority and shield themselves from accountability. For example, they blame you for their violent outbursts— “You triggered me.” They pressure you to keep their mental health struggle private, isolating you from talking to your friends and family about their behaviour. When they can feel you pulling away from the relationship, they talk about suicide to engender your fear and sympathy. Some abusive people do struggle with their mental health. Some abusive people do have horrific experiences of trauma. If they are serious about getting help, mental health and the abuse must be addressed differently. Whether this person is your family member or your partner or your friend, having experienced trauma or mental illness doesn’t mean you cannot or should not set boundaries with this person. Honouring your feelings and your boundaries does not make you an uncaring person. We can have understanding. And, regardless of how much they might be struggling, you deserve to be treated with respect.
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- If you are a trauma survivor, you may struggle to trust others. Let’s talk about how to identify trustworthy people in your life.
What is a Narcissist? Good Question. This Website is a resource for victims of all kinds of abuse, specifically Narcissist Abuse. Together we can Heal!
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- I don’t know who needs to hear this but ... My ex used to use the silent treatment to get his way ... he also used it to explain his absence while cheating ...regardless of his reason for being mad it was always my fault and he would claim it was to protect me from him doing worse ,justifying his actions while instilling fear at the same time ... women do this to men too abuse is not biased or ... take note and run if this is happening to you ... #mentalabuse #survivor #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #reallife #advocate #heal #educate
- Beauty !
One unconditional kindness,
weight of understanding,
one good book,
a heartbeat read !
Loners to attract,
ability to forge,
purpose to fill,
reward for commitment,
dragging magical wand !
Evident polite smile,
credible emotional heart,
whim to impress,
a loyal obsession,
of deem miracle !
A silent soulful journey,
evoking extraordinary abilities,
for someone to see,
the wings on your back,
flying sky blue rainbow !
To steal those rules,
reflecting on measures,
of clothes underneath and above,
from ultimate devotion,
of touching those fragments of love !
A gobbled destiny,
wavering hesitating with regrets,
overwhelming sense of indefinite form,
a precious memory of feelings,
to woo the curse of 'FOREVER' !
- This is our life now,
We're writing our story.
We want everyone to know,
We're speaking out daily.
This is for our siblings,
Everything we're doing now is for them.
We want them home,
And we want our family whole again.
The video on our YouTube Channel is just a small bit of our siblings lives now.
They're all going through hurt and pain every day!
And nobody is there for them.
Nobody cares for our siblings the way we do.
Maybe we are guilty,
Guilty of doing things out of love.
- I come from a family with verbal, substance, emotional and physical abuse.
You may look at my life today and see all the positivity and rainbows and butterflies. But it wasn’t always like this.
I FOUGHT for this life! I worked hard to get here; emotionally and mentally.
I’ll soon do a live, so I can share my past and what has shaped me to be the women I am today.
But I want you all to KNOW!
YOU can change your future.
You have all the power to change the direction of you life.
You have the will and drive to make a better life than the one you might have come from.
And you’re not alone! I believe in you!!!
It ends here and now 💛🙏🏻🌟
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