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  • "Eles [os cirurgiões estéticos] reclassificaram a carne da mulher adulta saudável como 'celulite', uma 'condição' inventada que chegou importada aos Estados Unidos pelas mãos da Vogue somente em 1973. Eles se referem⠀
a essa textura como 'deformante', 'repugnante', 'cheia de toxinas'. Antes de 1973, ela era a carne normal⠀
da mulher." Naomi Wolf, em o Mito da Beleza. Então, minha gente, vai ter celulite com shorts curto sempre (ao vivo tem mais que na foto, botem fé!). Celulite não é falha de caráter, não precisa esconder. Combinadas?⠀
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#feminismo #feminist #beautystandards #effyourbeautystandards⠀
  • "Eles [os cirurgiões estéticos] reclassificaram a carne da mulher adulta saudável como 'celulite', uma 'condição' inventada que chegou importada aos Estados Unidos pelas mãos da Vogue somente em 1973. Eles se referem⠀
    a essa textura como 'deformante', 'repugnante', 'cheia de toxinas'. Antes de 1973, ela era a carne normal⠀
    da mulher." Naomi Wolf, em o Mito da Beleza. Então, minha gente, vai ter celulite com shorts curto sempre (ao vivo tem mais que na foto, botem fé!). Celulite não é falha de caráter, não precisa esconder. Combinadas?⠀
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    #feminismo #feminist #beautystandards #effyourbeautystandards
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  • I am...fuelling my body.
Yesterday in staff meeting after a hot sports day, I was offered a magnum. Every single ounce of my brain was saying ‘don’t do it!’ ‘It’s bad for you’ ‘you’ll regret it’, even though I knew deep down it would be soooo good. My mind was panicking so much and I found it so hard to make the words ‘yes please’ come out my mouth. I felt everyone was judging me, looking to see if I ate it...would they think I have no self control?? But... I ate it and NOTHING HAPPENED! No one thought anything of it, I didn’t immediately feel horrible and greedy, I didn’t regret it. It was such a win for me and I am going to keep pushing myself and challenging myself so I can do more things without having a constant battle in my mind!!
  • I am...fuelling my body.
    Yesterday in staff meeting after a hot sports day, I was offered a magnum. Every single ounce of my brain was saying ‘don’t do it!’ ‘It’s bad for you’ ‘you’ll regret it’, even though I knew deep down it would be soooo good. My mind was panicking so much and I found it so hard to make the words ‘yes please’ come out my mouth. I felt everyone was judging me, looking to see if I ate it...would they think I have no self control?? But... I ate it and NOTHING HAPPENED! No one thought anything of it, I didn’t immediately feel horrible and greedy, I didn’t regret it. It was such a win for me and I am going to keep pushing myself and challenging myself so I can do more things without having a constant battle in my mind!!
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  • This was the scary post for me. Not posed at my optimal angle. I see so many things the old me would have legitimately hated about this photo. If I saw this 4 years ago, I would have gone to extremes to change the way I looked.

Not too long ago I finally got a diagnosis that involves my hormones being completely out of whack. Therefore, causing me to gain weight when it all started roughly two years ago. This was a massive battle for me, many tears and many unhealthy habits trying to get back to the way I used to look before I gained the weight.

It took me until recently to look at myself a different way. A healthy and positive way. Here’s the thing, I work out, I eat healthy as often as I can (but hey everyone loves a good pizza or ice cream every now and then),and I take care of my mental health. As a nurse morally I can’t preach what I don’t practice.

So slowly chipping away at the negative view, I’ve started to blossom into the woman I am meant to be.

Although, this was VERY hard for me to post. My goal is that if I can just help one person start their self love journey with this inspiration; then I call this a success.

Nothing that I post is for validation or to feel better about myself but simply to play a small role in changing something that needs changing in the world. The beauty industry. Imagine what we could accomplish in the time we wasted thinking about self hate.

No matter what your story you are amazing and deserve to love and take care of yourself.

Xoxo.
  • This was the scary post for me. Not posed at my optimal angle. I see so many things the old me would have legitimately hated about this photo. If I saw this 4 years ago, I would have gone to extremes to change the way I looked.

    Not too long ago I finally got a diagnosis that involves my hormones being completely out of whack. Therefore, causing me to gain weight when it all started roughly two years ago. This was a massive battle for me, many tears and many unhealthy habits trying to get back to the way I used to look before I gained the weight.

    It took me until recently to look at myself a different way. A healthy and positive way. Here’s the thing, I work out, I eat healthy as often as I can (but hey everyone loves a good pizza or ice cream every now and then),and I take care of my mental health. As a nurse morally I can’t preach what I don’t practice.

    So slowly chipping away at the negative view, I’ve started to blossom into the woman I am meant to be.

    Although, this was VERY hard for me to post. My goal is that if I can just help one person start their self love journey with this inspiration; then I call this a success.

    Nothing that I post is for validation or to feel better about myself but simply to play a small role in changing something that needs changing in the world. The beauty industry. Imagine what we could accomplish in the time we wasted thinking about self hate.

    No matter what your story you are amazing and deserve to love and take care of yourself.

    Xoxo.
  •  3  3  3 minutes ago

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  • 🖕🖕 here's to the "style rules" that shoved us fat peeps into a box. 🖕🖕 here's to saying f/u to those rules, and dressing (LIVING!!) as YOU see fit. Rule #1 "fat girls can't wear large prints" . Rule #2 "fat girls cant wear crop tops". Both shattered in one, adorable, waist snatching outfit. #effyourbeautystandards #torridfashion #sexy #bedroomhair
  • 🖕🖕 here's to the "style rules" that shoved us fat peeps into a box. 🖕🖕 here's to saying f/u to those rules, and dressing (LIVING!!) as YOU see fit. Rule #1 "fat girls can't wear large prints" . Rule #2 "fat girls cant wear crop tops". Both shattered in one, adorable, waist snatching outfit. #effyourbeautystandards #torridfashion #sexy #bedroomhair
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  • Happy Friday!!!! In honor of my birthday next week meaning my license is about to expire, I present to you, my face!

Two of these are passport pics and one is a CT license which I didn’t know they don’t list your weight on... interesting

What I find most interesting here is my face at 368lbs in 2015 and my face at 370lbs in 2017 look like there is more than a 2lbs difference lol

It’s interesting to see how my body carries weight/fat

Anywho, speaking of faces, I have a facial this afternoon with my girl @ashnordman and I can’t wait! Gotta keep this face looking fresh for chapter 30!

Have a wonderful Friday!!
  • Happy Friday!!!! In honor of my birthday next week meaning my license is about to expire, I present to you, my face!

    Two of these are passport pics and one is a CT license which I didn’t know they don’t list your weight on... interesting

    What I find most interesting here is my face at 368lbs in 2015 and my face at 370lbs in 2017 look like there is more than a 2lbs difference lol

    It’s interesting to see how my body carries weight/fat

    Anywho, speaking of faces, I have a facial this afternoon with my girl @ashnordman and I can’t wait! Gotta keep this face looking fresh for chapter 30!

    Have a wonderful Friday!!
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  • It’s amazing how much better you feel in your body when it’s fed and you aren’t constantly thinking about food, when you couldn’t give a 💩 about a scale because it measures nothing that’s actually important, and that your body isn’t a problem so changing its size or shape won’t ‘fix’ you. Cheers to the freedom that comes with the compassion and kindness we give to our body. Same team. Same team. ✨🌻🤩
  • It’s amazing how much better you feel in your body when it’s fed and you aren’t constantly thinking about food, when you couldn’t give a 💩 about a scale because it measures nothing that’s actually important, and that your body isn’t a problem so changing its size or shape won’t ‘fix’ you. Cheers to the freedom that comes with the compassion and kindness we give to our body. Same team. Same team. ✨🌻🤩
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  • ❤️Venus viene en todos los talles ❤️ por La Maga .
“Nunca estarás buena “
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Las listas a las que pertenecemos son otras y las cualidades con las que nos describen también, nosotros podemos ser interesantes, gauchitas, curvy, rellenitas o dables.
Pero nosotros nunca estaremos buenos. Yo nunca seré buena”
Ana Larriel, Nunca estras buena.
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“Podría ponerme a dieta. O te podrías ir a la mierda”, inspiró el sitio “Gorda! Un zine que no busca aceptación ni agrado”, La vergüenza se vuelve orgullo. Las ganas de no respirar con tal de meter la panza se desinflan en un irreverente bullido. El soplido trae nuevos vientos. “En un sistema como el actual, capitalista y heteropatriarcal, el odio al cuerpo funciona no sólo porque como dijo Naomi Woolf la dieta es el sedante político más potente en la historia de las mujeres, sino porque debemos tener claro que una persona feliz no consume “ arenga la web STOP gordofobia.
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Magdalena Piñeyro desafía: “siempre que sale a la luz el debate sobre la gordofobia, aparece algún alma caritativa que se encarga de recordarnos que estar en forma es una cuestión de salud, como si esos consejos para los gordos se dieran desde una buena voluntad de la ciudadanía para protegernos. Es curioso, porque muy pocas personas podrían dar fe de llevar una vida completamente sana; sin embargo sólo a las gordas se nos tacha de insanas (...) La critica a la gordura no es por salud sino por norma, y no es una crítica constructiva sino discriminatoria y segregadora. Lo que nos está enfermando, precisamente, es la obsesión por nuestra figura, por cumplir con el prototipo, con esa norma estética ampliamente aceptada, pero nadie parece preocuparse por nuestra salud mental.”
@luciana.peker , #PutitaGolosa
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Les recomiendo si les interesa el tema vayan a ver las historias destacadas al insta de @srtabimbo que está a pleno cuestionando todas las miradas que caen sobre lxs cuerpxs gordxs .
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#venus #venusboticelli #venusdeboticelli #cuerpxsdisidentes #militanciagorda #stopgordofobia #feminista #tatuajefeminista #feministtattoo #effyourbeautystandards @analarriel
  • ❤️Venus viene en todos los talles ❤️ por La Maga .
    “Nunca estarás buena “
    .
    Las listas a las que pertenecemos son otras y las cualidades con las que nos describen también, nosotros podemos ser interesantes, gauchitas, curvy, rellenitas o dables.
    Pero nosotros nunca estaremos buenos. Yo nunca seré buena”
    Ana Larriel, Nunca estras buena.
    .
    “Podría ponerme a dieta. O te podrías ir a la mierda”, inspiró el sitio “Gorda! Un zine que no busca aceptación ni agrado”, La vergüenza se vuelve orgullo. Las ganas de no respirar con tal de meter la panza se desinflan en un irreverente bullido. El soplido trae nuevos vientos. “En un sistema como el actual, capitalista y heteropatriarcal, el odio al cuerpo funciona no sólo porque como dijo Naomi Woolf la dieta es el sedante político más potente en la historia de las mujeres, sino porque debemos tener claro que una persona feliz no consume “ arenga la web STOP gordofobia.
    (...)
    Magdalena Piñeyro desafía: “siempre que sale a la luz el debate sobre la gordofobia, aparece algún alma caritativa que se encarga de recordarnos que estar en forma es una cuestión de salud, como si esos consejos para los gordos se dieran desde una buena voluntad de la ciudadanía para protegernos. Es curioso, porque muy pocas personas podrían dar fe de llevar una vida completamente sana; sin embargo sólo a las gordas se nos tacha de insanas (...) La critica a la gordura no es por salud sino por norma, y no es una crítica constructiva sino discriminatoria y segregadora. Lo que nos está enfermando, precisamente, es la obsesión por nuestra figura, por cumplir con el prototipo, con esa norma estética ampliamente aceptada, pero nadie parece preocuparse por nuestra salud mental.”
    @luciana.peker , #PutitaGolosa
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    Les recomiendo si les interesa el tema vayan a ver las historias destacadas al insta de @srtabimbo que está a pleno cuestionando todas las miradas que caen sobre lxs cuerpxs gordxs .
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    #venus #venusboticelli #venusdeboticelli #cuerpxsdisidentes #militanciagorda #stopgordofobia #feminista #tatuajefeminista #feministtattoo #effyourbeautystandards @analarriel
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  • no, I’m not a snack at all // look, baby, I’m the whole damn meal ✌🏻✨ @lizzobeeating turned it all the way out last night and took us all to church 🖤🙌🏻
  • no, I’m not a snack at all // look, baby, I’m the whole damn meal ✌🏻✨ @lizzobeeating turned it all the way out last night and took us all to church 🖤🙌🏻
  •  13  2  17 minutes ago
  • Being you, accepting yourself, loving yourself. I want you to walk away from your shoot feeling those vibes ✨🤩✨ gorgeous client: @corinnerayfit #boudoir
  • Being you, accepting yourself, loving yourself. I want you to walk away from your shoot feeling those vibes ✨🤩✨ gorgeous client: @corinnerayfit #boudoir
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  • When you’re low-key salty that you didn’t find anything incriminating in his phone... And yes, the suit! I’m getting so much love on this suit from @metrostylenow ! Guess what? You can get the whole two piece under 100.00!

Click the link in the bio to get yours! #Metrostyle 📷 @rosscurryphoto
  • When you’re low-key salty that you didn’t find anything incriminating in his phone... And yes, the suit! I’m getting so much love on this suit from @metrostylenow ! Guess what? You can get the whole two piece under 100.00!

    Click the link in the bio to get yours! #Metrostyle 📷 @rosscurryphoto
  •  63  9  28 minutes ago
  • 🔥NEW NEW🔥 The Bodied Ruched Dress! Also comes in Royal Blue. Models  wearing 1x/2x and 2x/3x. TAP PIC FOR DEETS!
  • 🔥NEW NEW🔥 The Bodied Ruched Dress! Also comes in Royal Blue. Models wearing 1x/2x and 2x/3x. TAP PIC FOR DEETS!
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  • 5.24.19. Another re-wear post! Left is today, right was 2017. This is a dress I designed myself. I created a pattern, and then I sewed it all together.

I decided I preferred a sleeveless look than the cap sleeve I had originally created, so I modified it and added a couple of darts at the bust.

Dress: @jodiehunter09
  • 5.24.19. Another re-wear post! Left is today, right was 2017. This is a dress I designed myself. I created a pattern, and then I sewed it all together.

    I decided I preferred a sleeveless look than the cap sleeve I had originally created, so I modified it and added a couple of darts at the bust.

    Dress: @jodiehunter09
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  • There’s always at least one picture where I’m singing and dancing along.
  • There’s always at least one picture where I’m singing and dancing along.
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  • Wrap dresses are our current obsession. Head to the link in our bio to shop. Use code MEM20 to save! #79Roze
  • Wrap dresses are our current obsession. Head to the link in our bio to shop. Use code MEM20 to save! #79Roze
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Top #effyourbeautystandards Posts

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  • Сегодня расскажу вам про мои очки 😎 я фанат! Для меня это - один из самых важных аксессуаров, наряду с серьгами и часами 🖤
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Я - однолюб. Если я прикипела к какой-то марке или магазину, буду ему верна до гроба! Ну, или до того момента, пока они все не испортят... бывает такое 😬
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Так и получилось, что у меня почти все очки одной марки. Я обожаю @quayaustralia 😍 not sponsored 😢 Узнала о них от ютуберов и влюбилась! Тем более, продаются на ASOS 👍🏻
Стоят чуть дороже масс-маркета, а выглядят как люксовые 😍
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Собрала почти все в карусельке, но тут напишу название оправ, если вдруг вам понадобятся :)
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😎 Quay Australia x @jaclynhill - Upgrade / караулила их и купила на ASOS со второго раза
😎 Quay Australia x @desiperkins - High Key
🤓 Quay Australia - Hardwire / моя новая оправа, любооовь! Диоптрии вставили без проблем)
😎 Quay Australia - My Girl / мои первые их очки, идеальная форма cat eye.
А ещё у Ки (да, читается так) круто то, что всех из очки идут с чехлом 👍🏻
😎 @riverisland - те, что на фото) дерзкие и крутые! Нравятся розовые душки, потому что в целом этот цвет носить перестала, но немножко - можно!
🤓 Enni Marco - моя главная оправа, брала давно в оптике в какой-то. Перемерила миллион, все были узкие, поэтому даже цена на эту обычную пластмассовую оправу меня не остановила 😅
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Есть тут у меня очечные фанаты, как я?))) Признавайтесь! 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️
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В моем вишлисте очки YSL в форме 🖤, но я их не мерила, и что-то мне подсказывает, что они не сядут 🤦🏻‍♀️ поживем-увидим!
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#dashakudryavtseva_style #pussize #size22 #плюссайз #плюссайзмода #плюссайзодежда #celebratemycurves #celebratemysize #goldenconfidence #effyourbeautystandards
  • Сегодня расскажу вам про мои очки 😎 я фанат! Для меня это - один из самых важных аксессуаров, наряду с серьгами и часами 🖤

    Я - однолюб. Если я прикипела к какой-то марке или магазину, буду ему верна до гроба! Ну, или до того момента, пока они все не испортят... бывает такое 😬

    Так и получилось, что у меня почти все очки одной марки. Я обожаю @quayaustralia 😍 not sponsored 😢 Узнала о них от ютуберов и влюбилась! Тем более, продаются на ASOS 👍🏻
    Стоят чуть дороже масс-маркета, а выглядят как люксовые 😍

    Собрала почти все в карусельке, но тут напишу название оправ, если вдруг вам понадобятся :)

    😎 Quay Australia x @jaclynhill - Upgrade / караулила их и купила на ASOS со второго раза
    😎 Quay Australia x @desiperkins - High Key
    🤓 Quay Australia - Hardwire / моя новая оправа, любооовь! Диоптрии вставили без проблем)
    😎 Quay Australia - My Girl / мои первые их очки, идеальная форма cat eye.
    А ещё у Ки (да, читается так) круто то, что всех из очки идут с чехлом 👍🏻
    😎 @riverisland - те, что на фото) дерзкие и крутые! Нравятся розовые душки, потому что в целом этот цвет носить перестала, но немножко - можно!
    🤓 Enni Marco - моя главная оправа, брала давно в оптике в какой-то. Перемерила миллион, все были узкие, поэтому даже цена на эту обычную пластмассовую оправу меня не остановила 😅

    Есть тут у меня очечные фанаты, как я?))) Признавайтесь! 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

    В моем вишлисте очки YSL в форме 🖤, но я их не мерила, и что-то мне подсказывает, что они не сядут 🤦🏻‍♀️ поживем-увидим!
    .
    #dashakudryavtseva_style #pussize #size22 #плюссайз #плюссайзмода #плюссайзодежда #celebratemycurves #celebratemysize #goldenconfidence #effyourbeautystandards
  •  163  6  2 hours ago

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  • *Inserts meaningful caption like majority “insta famous” chicks* -“That single life glow baby” 💁🏻‍♀️⚡️- Nah dub really its that sunset lighting & H&M Highlight ya digg 😂 💁🏻‍♀️
  • *Inserts meaningful caption like majority “insta famous” chicks* -“That single life glow baby” 💁🏻‍♀️⚡️- Nah dub really its that sunset lighting & H&M Highlight ya digg 😂 💁🏻‍♀️
  •  5,087  22  22 May, 2019
  • Hands up if you can relate 🙌🏼 I’m not sure when the obsession with the thigh gap began... The reality is that some girls/women naturally have hips and legs that put their body in a position to have a natural gap between their thighs. Other girls/women don’t have this...and that’s totally okay 👏🏼 The reality is that most people aren’t concerned with whether or not boys/men have thigh gaps....the thigh gap is just another unrealistic beauty ideal that is forced upon women in particular, making those of us who don’t reach it feel less than.

YOU ARE NOT LESS THAN ❤️ Seriously. There was a day when I thought I wouldn’t be happy with my body until I had a thigh gap.... and then I realized that was a pretty miserable and unrealistic way to live 🙌🏼 And slowly but surely I began to accept my body for the way it is and laid down the burden of trying to micromanage it and “fix it”. My name is Emily + my thighs rub together when I walk.... and that’s the least interesting fact you will ever hear about me 😂

I’m so glad you’re here. If you’ve ever struggled with body image concerns or low self-esteem, you’re not alone, & there is freedom to be found 💙✨
  • Hands up if you can relate 🙌🏼 I’m not sure when the obsession with the thigh gap began... The reality is that some girls/women naturally have hips and legs that put their body in a position to have a natural gap between their thighs. Other girls/women don’t have this...and that’s totally okay 👏🏼 The reality is that most people aren’t concerned with whether or not boys/men have thigh gaps....the thigh gap is just another unrealistic beauty ideal that is forced upon women in particular, making those of us who don’t reach it feel less than.

    YOU ARE NOT LESS THAN ❤️ Seriously. There was a day when I thought I wouldn’t be happy with my body until I had a thigh gap.... and then I realized that was a pretty miserable and unrealistic way to live 🙌🏼 And slowly but surely I began to accept my body for the way it is and laid down the burden of trying to micromanage it and “fix it”. My name is Emily + my thighs rub together when I walk.... and that’s the least interesting fact you will ever hear about me 😂

    I’m so glad you’re here. If you’ve ever struggled with body image concerns or low self-esteem, you’re not alone, & there is freedom to be found 💙✨
  •  265  4  2 hours ago